Yes, Money Has Made Me Happier (And Here’s Why)
Look, I get it. The whole “money can’t buy happiness” thing? It’s a popular sentiment. But honestly, I’ve found that having a certain amount of financial security has significantly improved my quality of life. Let me tell you why.
The Weight of Financial Worry:
Before I reached a point of financial stability, I was constantly stressed. Every bill, every unexpected expense, felt like a crisis. I’ve seen firsthand how money troubles tear relationships apart. It’s the root of so many arguments, so much anxiety. And that’s when I started to ask myself: “Does money really make you happy?”
My Personal “Enough” Point:
My answer? Yes, it does. But not just any amount. For me, and for many people, there’s a threshold. Once I reached a point where my monthly bills were consistently covered, and I had a bit left over for hobbies and the occasional treat, my overall happiness improved dramatically.
Visual Aid 1: My Personal Happiness Curve
My Happiness Level
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|/________________ My Income ($)
~$50,000 (My "Enough" Point)
- This is a simplified representation of how my happiness increased as my income reached a certain point.
The $75,000 Mark (And My Journey Beyond):
I found that around $70,000 USD a year (net, after tax) was a sweet spot for me. It meant I wasn’t constantly worrying about money. Sure, more money is nice, but doubling my income didn’t double my happiness. Unless, of course, I wanted to travel more, or live in a really expensive area.
- A quick note: This amount might be different for everyone, and it definitely varies based on location. Living in a major city, for example, eats up a lot more of that income.
Visual Aid 2: My Cost-of-Living Breakdown
- Here’s a rough idea of how my expenses shifted in different scenarios:
Situation | My Annual Expenses | Notes
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Struggling to get by | <$40,000 | Constant stress, minimal enjoyment.
Comfortable | ~$70,000 | Bills paid, some fun money.
Living it up | >$150,000 | More travel, nicer things (optional).
The Trap of Penny-Pinching:
I’ve seen people get obsessed with extreme frugality. They track every cent, brag about tiny savings. And honestly? It looks exhausting. I think they forget the goal is to enjoy life, not just accumulate money. I’ve been there, and it just created more stress.
Visual Aid 3: My Stress vs. Frugality “Sweet Spot”
My Stress Level
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|/________________ My Frugality Level
- I found that there’s a point where being too frugal actually increases my stress.
My Personal FIRE Goal:
My own financial independence goal is around $200,000 a year. That’s enough for me to live comfortably, travel a bit, and not worry about money. To achieve that through investments, I’d need around $4 million. But I’m exploring other avenues, which I’ll share in future posts.
My Key Takeaways:
- Money has absolutely made me happier by reducing stress.
- There’s a “sweet spot” income-wise, around $75,000, where I felt a significant improvement.
- Extreme frugality isn’t worth it.
- I prefer a balanced approach that allows me to enjoy life.
- Everyone’s number is different.
Ultimately, it’s about finding your “enough” and building a life you enjoy.